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Intake Form

Welcome to Sydney City Couples Counselling Clinic.  Thank you for seeking our services.

Confidentiality:

All information disclosed in therapy remains strictly confidential unless you give me explicit consent.  Your confidentiality enables you to freely open up in therapy and fully explore your thoughts and feelings in a safe place.  I will always preserve the integrity of our therapeutic working relationship.

The few exceptions are:

  1. If my notes are subpoenaed by a court;
  2. If there is an imminent risk of serious harm to yourself, another person or if child abuse is disclosed;
  3. Defending myself against a complaint;
  4. Reporting another therapist for serious misconduct;
  5. Any other legal obligation to do so.

Fees:

50 minute Couples Counselling session $220

50 minute Individual Counselling session $195

All payments are to be completed 48 hours prior to sessions.

Bank details:

BSB: 815-000
Account: 000071738
Name: Steven Cost-Chretien

Kindly transfer $100 as part payment of your FIRST session to secure your booking time slot.

Subsequent sessions can be paid 48 hours before each session.

Dual relationships:

A dual relationship is defined as a relationship a therapist has with a client which overlaps with the professional relationship.

Not all dual relationships are unethical or avoidable however dual relationships between therapist and client can compromise therapy.

In the event we inadvertently cross paths in public, I would usually say hello and keep walking to protect your privacy and to keep our therapist-client relationship confidential. Please inform me if you would prefer an alternative method.

Out of session contact:

Important issues may arise for you outside our scheduled sessions which are best handled in an additional face to face, telephone or Zoom session. Please contact me during office hours to book.

In the event of a serious mental health crisis or emergency please contact Police/Ambulance on 000 or Lifeline on 131 114.

Session cancellations and rescheduling appointments:

Your session appointment is reserved for you and other clients are unable to book that session time slot. On your request, I can reschedule or cancel your session appointment but if less than 48 hours is given, I will need to charge the full fee for the session.

Possible risks and benefits of counselling:

Many have benefitted from the counselling process in discovering more about themselves and a better understanding of the relational dynamics with others. In my experience clients who are open to exploring their thoughts, feelings and subsequent behaviours have a good chance of experiencing break-throughs. Nonetheless, the counselling process may cause emotional discomfort and distress as it has the potential to touch on emotionally painful issues. Please bring to my attention if you are feeling particularly distressed.

I look forward to establishing, building and maintaining a therapeutic relationship with you and walking alongside your path of discovery.

My ‘client’ signature below signifies my approval of the above terms and conditions of Sydney City Couples Counselling Clinic’s Client-Therapist Informed Consent Agreement form.

Please feel free to discuss with me any concerns you have before signing.

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Informed Consent Agreement

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Help in a Crisis

Finding purpose

Loss of confidence, loss of self
Emotional Support

Self-esteem, Self-care and Thriving
Faulty Thought Processes

Anxiety, Depression, Anger and Burn-out

Got a question?

Crisis Counselling, What and Why?

A crisis refers not just to a traumatic event or experience, but to an individual’s response to the situation. The events that trigger this crisis can run the gamut of life experience, from developmental hurdles (such as going through puberty) to natural disasters, to the death of a loved one.

Crisis counseling is an intervention that can help individuals deal with the crisis by receiving assistance and support from a crisis counselor (also sometimes called a crisis intervention counselor or trauma counselor). The roots of modern-day crisis counseling date back to World War I and World War II.

Before this time, soldiers who exhibited significant psychological reactions to the experiences they had at war were frequently seen as weak or even disloyal. However, it soon became apparent that soldiers who were immediately offered treatment fared much better than those who weren’t treated.

Loss of Confidence, Loss of Self

Identity crisis is an actual phenomenon, but most of us aren’t aware of what it means, what causes it, or what consequences it might have if left untreated. You should know that losing your sense of identity is a very real issue that could further many forms of tragedy if not treated in a timely manner.

Losing your sense of identity for short periods is actually rather common. It can happen at certain pivotal times in your life when big changes occur. Sometimes the confusion and accompanying feelings are a bridge that leads you into a new phase of your life and helps you to evolve. Other times, however, you can get stuck, lose your way and find yourself in a very dark place.

Got a question?

Faulty Thought Processes

Cognitive distortions are irrational thoughts that can influence your emotions. Everyone experiences cognitive distortions to some degree, but in their more extreme forms they can be harmful.

Magnification and Minimization: Exaggerating or minimizing the importance of events. One might believe their own achievements are unimportant, or that their mistakes are excessively important.

Catastrophizing: Seeing only the worst possible outcomes of a situation.

Overgeneralization: Making broad interpretations from a single or few events. “I felt awkward during my job interview. I am always so awkward.”

Magical Thinking: The belief that acts will influence unrelated situations. “I am a good person—bad things shouldn’t happen to me.”

Personalization: The belief that one is responsible for events outside of their own control. “My mom is always upset. She would be fine if I did more to help her.” Jumping to Conclusions: Interpreting the meaning of a situation with little or no evidence.

Mind Reading: Interpreting the thoughts and beliefs of others without adequate evidence. “She would not go on a date with me. She probably thinks I’m ugly.”

Fortune Telling: The expectation that a situation will turn out badly without adequate evidence.

Emotional Reasoning: The assumption that emotions reflect the way things really are. “I feel like a bad friend, therefore I must be a bad friend.”

Disqualifying the Positive: Recognizing only the negative aspects of a situation while ignoring the positive. One might receive many compliments on an evaluation, but focus on the single piece of negative feedback.

“Should” Statements: The belief that things should be a certain way. “I should always be friendly.”

All-or-Nothing Thinking: Thinking in absolutes such as “always”, “never”, or “every”. “I never do a good enough job on anything.

Anxiety, Depression, Anger and Burn-out

The symptoms of burnout and depression can overlap. But there are key differences, including how long your symptoms last and how you might need to manage your symptoms.

Burnout can cause overwhelming feelings of mental and physical exhaustion due to prolonged stress. It can make it difficult to go about your usual activities such as work, caregiving, or juggling multiple responsibilities.

Although burnout can be emotionally taxing, symptoms are usually temporary and disappear when you take a longer break or focus more energy on activities you enjoy.

Similar to burnout, symptoms of depression can get in the way of your daily life. Some of the symptoms — sleep issues, memory trouble, and fatigue — can be the same as burnout. But depression is a diagnosable mental health condition that causes other symptoms such as:

  • Losing interest in your favorite activities
  • Feeling sad or empty most of the time
  • Feeling angry or irritable
  • Having low self-esteem
  • Pulling away from your loved ones
  • Noticing changes in appetite
  • Feeling hopeless or having thoughts of suicide
 

Unlike burnout, depression also doesn’t always have a cause. Sometimes a specific stress can trigger depression, but your depression may continue long after the stress is gone. If you think you may have depression, reach out to your healthcare provider. Depression typically requires professional treatment before you feel better.

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